34 Funeral Messages

When words don’t come easily, flowers can say more. At Interflora, we know that flowers can express the things we sometimes can’t, especially during times of loss. Whether you’re attending a funeral or sending a bouquet to honour someone special, the right message can offer comfort, share memories, and remind someone they’re not alone.

But when it comes to funeral messages, finding the right words can feel overwhelming. What should you write on the card? How do you express something heartfelt in just a few lines?

We’ve pulled together this helpful guide to funeral flower card messages, combining popular phrases, meaningful quotes, and warm, compassionate advice — all arranged in a handy list to help make your words all the more memorable.

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• Sleep peacefully
• You will be dearly missed
• In loving memory
• Gone but never forgotten

Religious Funeral Flower Messages

If the person you’re remembering was religious, or their family holds strong religious beliefs, a faith-based message can provide spiritual comfort and connection.

• May God bless you and keep you in His care
• In God’s arms may you gently rest
• A silent thought, a quiet prayer, for someone in God’s care
• Heaven has gained another angel
• God is with you
• May you rest in peace in God’s heaven

• “May the road rise up to meet you and may the wind be always at your back.”
• “Loss leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.”
• “You brought joy, laughter, and light to everyone who met you. You’ll be missed always.”
• “The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart.”
• “Time may pass and fade away, but memories of you will always stay.”

Funeral Messages for Specific Relationships

For a Parent

If you’re saying goodbye to a mum or dad, the message can feel especially personal. These ideas can help honour the love and care they gave.

• Mum/Dad, you were loved by all. You’ll be missed more than words can say
• Thank you for everything, Mum/Dad — your love will stay with me forever
• You gave me the best life. Rest peacefully
• Your happiness and love will remain in our hearts.
• You were the most caring and loving mother/father in the world. Rest now and be at peace
• The world was a better place with you in it

For a Grandparent

Grandparents often hold a special place in our hearts. Their funeral messages should be a tribute to their kindness, wisdom, and the stories that live on long after they’ve gone.

• You made the world a brighter place, Grandma/Grandad
• Your warmth and laughter will echo in our hearts forever
• Grandma/Grandad, though we grieve you now, your memory will live on through us.
• You lived a life full of love. We are grateful for every moment
• Thank you for the memories, and all the love you shared

For a Sibling

Losing a sibling means losing someone who shared your childhood, your memories, and often your sense of humour too. These messages can help you honour their spirit and the bond you’ll always share.

• You weren’t just my brother/sister, you were my best friend. I’ll miss you always
• Life won’t be the same without you, but I’ll carry your love with me
• Thank you for the laughs, the memories, and everything in between
• You’ll always be in my heart, my lovely brother/sister
• A part of me is missing, but I’ll treasure the part of you I still hold

For a Child

There are no perfect words when a child is lost – only love. These messages aim to offer that love, honouring a life that, while far too short, was full of meaning.

• You were with us for too short a time, but your light will never fade
• A beautiful soul, forever remembered and forever loved
• There are no words, only love – always
• Rest peacefully, little one
• You will always be our brightest star

For a Friend

Saying goodbye to a friend means saying goodbye to shared stories, inside jokes, and someone who truly got you. These funeral messages for a friend help put that unique connection into words.

• You weren’t just a friend – you were family in every way that counts
• Thank you for your friendship, your kindness, and your laughter
• Life was brighter with you in it – you’ll always be remembered
• You leave behind a space no one else can fill
• Until we meet again, my dear friend

For a Colleague or Acquaintance

Sometimes the connection is professional, but still meaningful. Whether it’s a well-liked colleague or a familiar face from the community, these respectful messages offer a fitting tribute.

• It was a privilege to know and work with you – you’ll be missed
• Your dedication and warmth left a lasting impression
• Sending strength and thoughts to your family and friends
• Rest in peace, [Name]. It was an honour to know you
• You brought kindness and positivity wherever you went

Funeral Message Etiquette & Practical Tips

Knowing what to say is only part of it — how and when you say it matters too. Whether you’re sending a funeral wreath, writing a condolence card, or offering support in other ways, a few thoughtful touches can make all the difference.

Here’s some guidance on funeral etiquette to help you navigate this delicate time with confidence and care.

Signing your name

• Use your full name if the recipient may not immediately recognise you
• For group messages, list names or say “from all of us at [family/workplace/etc.]"

Who to address: the deceased or the family?

• You can write to the deceased (“Rest in peace, Mum”) or to the family (“Thinking of you all”). Either is fine, just be consistent

When to send funeral messages or flowers

• Aim to send flowers to arrive the day before or the morning of the funeral
• Cards can be sent before or after the funeral ceremony. There’s no ‘too late’ when it comes to condolences.

Sending Funeral Flowers With Interflora

When it’s time to say goodbye, flowers can say so much. Whether you’re choosing classic lilies, soft white roses or a tribute bouquet in their favourite colour, our florists will help you send something truly special — hand-crafted with care and delivered with heart.
Explore our full range of funeral flowers and casket tributes, or find inspiration in our collection of funeral poems and hymns to help express what’s in your heart.